Alexander Martin:
Hi Beta!
Uh, since this is your first Locktober I’ll keep my advice pretty generic and hope some of it is new to you.
Remove the hair - One of the most aggravating things about chastity is that the hair gets caught in the cage as you walk. This can result in pulling a hair out of your skin and sometimes cages even pinch skin as well. However, we can control the amount of hair for it to get caught in so remove it, whether that means shaving (if skin irritation as a result of shaving isn’t an issue for you) or waxing (on your crotch you might be able to do this alone, but it’s best to have a friend or lover assist). If you’re going to wax your cock, be sure to look up all the info you can online about how to wax safely. After all, your scrotum is a very thin layer of skin, there is no fat or muscle to protect your testicles so be VERY conscious of pouring hot wax onto it.
Keep clean - It is OK and appropriate to let it out periodically (once a week, or once every two weeks). Chastity cages can make it very difficult to get the skin cleaned up. Clean it up, towel it off, and put it away when you’re ready.
You can lend the key to a trusted friend - If you’re in need of someone else to hold onto it. You CAN lend it to a friend you trust to keep it safe without telling them what it is or what it’s for. Do make sure they’re organized because when Locktober is over, you… obviously need that key back… Or a pair of (small) bolt cutters and a new lock and key.
Chastity isn’t about how long you can go - Chastity is about finding the most sexually interesting and satisfying way to enjoy chastity. Some men find that when they’re constantly horny and locked they feel both secure and focused. They feel more ready and able to meet the demands of their Men at a moment’s notice. There are also guys who put a cage on for say… three months then take it off on a Friday and jack off all weekend coating their homes in jizz from their overfull balls. Whatever method works for you is the right way to do chastity.
If you can, share the secret with someone else - The most fun you can have is having it as a dirty little secret with a lover or FWB. Someone who can engage in that smile, wink, and nod with you when you’re out to brunch. Someone who can tease you mercilessly knowing there’s nothing you can do about it. Use Locktober to become closer with another person.
The entire purpose of Locktober as I understand it is to give people interested in trying chastity a reason, an excuse, and a time frame to try it out and see to what extent it works for them. Even if you find chastity isn’t for you that knowledge is as valuable as what IS for you. If you end Locktober and are beating yourself up for how you did? That’s how you do Locktober wrong.
Thanks for the question, and I hope you have a fun and frustrating month!!
Hi Beta!
Uh, since this is your first Locktober I’ll keep my advice pretty generic and hope some of it is new to you.
Remove the hair - One of the most aggravating things about chastity is that the hair gets caught in the cage as you walk. This can result in pulling a hair out of your skin and sometimes cages even pinch skin as well. However, we can control the amount of hair for it to get caught in so remove it, whether that means shaving (if skin irritation as a result of shaving isn’t an issue for you) or waxing (on your crotch you might be able to do this alone, but it’s best to have a friend or lover assist). If you’re going to wax your cock, be sure to look up all the info you can online about how to wax safely. After all, your scrotum is a very thin layer of skin, there is no fat or muscle to protect your testicles so be VERY conscious of pouring hot wax onto it.
Keep clean - It is OK and appropriate to let it out periodically (once a week, or once every two weeks). Chastity cages can make it very difficult to get the skin cleaned up. Clean it up, towel it off, and put it away when you’re ready.
You can lend the key to a trusted friend - If you’re in need of someone else to hold onto it. You CAN lend it to a friend you trust to keep it safe without telling them what it is or what it’s for. Do make sure they’re organized because when Locktober is over, you… obviously need that key back… Or a pair of (small) bolt cutters and a new lock and key.
Chastity isn’t about how long you can go - Chastity is about finding the most sexually interesting and satisfying way to enjoy chastity. Some men find that when they’re constantly horny and locked they feel both secure and focused. They feel more ready and able to meet the demands of their Men at a moment’s notice. There are also guys who put a cage on for say… three months then take it off on a Friday and jack off all weekend coating their homes in jizz from their overfull balls. Whatever method works for you is the right way to do chastity.
If you can, share the secret with someone else - The most fun you can have is having it as a dirty little secret with a lover or FWB. Someone who can engage in that smile, wink, and nod with you when you’re out to brunch. Someone who can tease you mercilessly knowing there’s nothing you can do about it. Use Locktober to become closer with another person.
The entire purpose of Locktober as I understand it is to give people interested in trying chastity a reason, an excuse, and a time frame to try it out and see to what extent it works for them. Even if you find chastity isn’t for you that knowledge is as valuable as what IS for you. If you end Locktober and are beating yourself up for how you did? That’s how you do Locktober wrong.
Thanks for the question, and I hope you have a fun and frustrating month!!
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