Showing posts with label #SingletailWhip. Show all posts
Showing posts with label #SingletailWhip. Show all posts

Sunday, January 6, 2019

Intensity Rating

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fearslave:

A while ago, Master had me fill a sheet to rate the intensity/scare level of each torture method that we had tried since i submit. After several years of training, it just got updated. Not all of them get a lower rating now though, some methods i got conditioned by Master just to fear them more, so they can be used to punish me more effectively.


intensity/scare ratings (1-10, 10 the most extreme):


Whip/Caning/Paddling

Hard flogging on back, while tied or untied 4

Single tail on back, while tied or untied, while it counts, in hundreds 6

Whip on inner thigh 8

small whip on cock, balls and nipples 5

Caning on butt and thigh, in hundreds, while strapped down immobile 6

Caning on sole 9

paddle hand repeatedly 5


TT = Tit Torture    

pull with fingers or toys 3

alligator clamps, on and off multiple times 5

clamps with chain on nipples, chain in mouth 4

cloth pins on nipples 1

hot wax on nipples to form a shell 4

rubbed for a long time until hurting with pleasure 2


CBT = Cock and Ball Torture

tied up with ropes 1

wear steel ball weight for up to two days 3

hot wax to cover the whole cock and balls 4

pinwheel on cockhead back and forth 3

boot kicks from behind 5

boot step on cock on the floor when kneeling 2

balls locked up with a humbler from behind 2


Electro

violet wand on whole body and sensitive parts 5

cock and balls wired to estim to the level of scream with pain 5

microphone to transform scream to shocks 4

electro pads on soles to induce painful involuntary contractions 1

stun gun to shock butt and soles repeatedly 8

stun baton to shock cock and balls repeatedly until cum 7

stun baton to shock all over body while fully strapped down 7

zapper on feet back and forth 10

zapper on nipples for up to 10 seconds 7


Bondage

full bondage in leather bag with hood, gag and steel head case 6

stretched in spread eagle on bondage table 3

hang on wrists and legs forced apart 1


Others

100 cloth pins on all sensitive parts 3

shoot the butt with air gun to make bruises 6

repeatedly suffocate while sucking balls 6

force to cum twice in a row 2

vibrator on cock without allowing to cum 1

cuffed and locked in dark cold chamber 3

force to stay still in humble positions 6

needle pad to press on soles before bastinado 2

wear chastity device over night 1

suffocate with plastic bag 7


Mental

water sports 1

Master angry 10

dog training 5

Whips and Canes

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fearslave:

Over the weekend i did a stock-taking on Master’s collection of floggers, whips, canes and batons. I thought that it would be interesting to write about them.

Whips/Floggers from left to right:


A and B, Flogger: Master doesn’t use floggers on me often. They just look big and intimidating, but don’t hurt at all (well, at least compared to single tail). i do feel a deeper “impact” like big palm slapping/hitting me when Master flogs me, but it’s just too mild for Master’s standard. Master seldom does warm-up in a whipping so they are of even less use.

C, Flogger: it’s a flogger with much thinner leather lashes, so stings a little more.

D, Cat o’ Nine Tails: the weird name impressed me 15 years ago when i first heard of it in an online chat. Finally it was Master who first used such thing on me. It was a good one, delivering spicy stings but different from single tails.

E, Single Tail: it was my tribute to Master several years ago. A fine plait whip made of kangaroo leather, the best leather for whips. It’s shorter and a bit stiff, so it hurts badly, maybe the worst among the leather whips Master has.

F. Single Tail: it’s the first whip that Master used on me, so it’s special and still my favorite. It’s probably cowhide, with a darker and shinier look than kangaroo.

G Single Tail: it’s another kangaroo whip, with the same duller shine. What’s different is that it has a handle at the end, so it must be a bit different when holding and wielding it.

H. Single Tail: i think this one is rubber. It feels very different on my back compared to the three leather ones. It gives a harder “pull” on the skin when it hits, which hurts really bad not in a “right” way. Leather is still much better than rubber when it’s a whip.

I. Short Whip: its plait is not as fine, and it has a firm leather bead at the end. It’s very effective to whip all over my body, and the bead hurts really bad.

J. Short Whip: it’s a rubber one with a leather tail. Also, very effective and Master uses it to give me bastinado too.

Canes/Batons from right to left:


K. Rubber Baton: it can hit quite heavily and the pain can be both dull and sharp.

L. Wood Bat: a smaller version of baseball bat. Master likes to hit my balls with it.

M. Metal Stick: it’s an interesting cane, probably made of aluminum given its weight and the same shine as a MacBook. i always wonder if it can be used with electro too.

N. Stick: i guess it’s a wood stick with a leather cover.

O. Cane: a typical cane, very effective and makes the wind sound.

P. Dressage Whip: the worst (or best) among its peers. Thin and stiff, the pain is much worse than a cane.

Q. Riding Crop: a well made one from a high-end brand, which is supposed to be for real horses.

Wednesday, December 26, 2018

Pain Play, and Gaining Marks, Explained

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Papa Tony:  I often rant about how the stereotypes about kinky pain and hardcore play is not ALL that there is. I’m well-known for that. I often advocate for sensitivity and mutually-pleasurable scenes. It’s how I roll.

AND, there is a lot of good to be said about mutually-enjoyed pain play. A very small percentage of men have the ability to instantly convert pain into pleasure.

Or, the sub doesn’t seek pain at all, and would be perfectly happy if it never happened again. But, NOTHING pleases him more than to make his Sir happy, even if it’s a struggle sometimes. Pain can be a very welcome part of his service.




I have played with many men over the decades who have had their backs covered in calluses from having experienced so many hardcore play scenes. That is their pleasure.

There have been times where we have had to scrub the walls after playing. I was always grateful that we forgot to invite the CSI crew over to join us. 😈 Perhaps we SHOULD have invited the Kinky Scene Investigators, and gotten a few useful tips!

It’s Not For Everybody, So Be Careful, Doms!

A true Pain Pig (also referred to as a Pain Slut) is a blessing to find, if that is what gets you going. However, I would be surprised if such subs take up more than one percent of the human population. It’s NEVER safe to assume that subs are looking for hardcore play, It can take years (and plenty of mutual growth) before that day shows up.

A Kinky Progression

Both of my slaves told me what their “Hard NO!” limits were, back when we were first negotiating our ongoing relationships. These included “No Pain, and No Marks.” I have never once tried to convince them to change their minds. I am an Ethical Sir.

Then, months along, the sub raises his head after a light spanking and says “Is that all ya got?” And… off we go into a deeper and different relationship. The years flow past.

Now, both of them can take vastly harder treatment than when we first met, and I STILL have never manipulated them into something that they would object to. We just kept building Trust with capital T, and mutually shifted the parameters of our play, a little bit at a time.

The Payoff

I have written about “Trophy Photos.” Who would care about such things? Well, in my direct experience, a dedicated and motivated sub, who has a great zeal to be the best sub that he can be, likes to have mementos of his personal triumphs.

I have had subs strut around naked in gym locker rooms, or going shirtless on public streets, just to show off marks that can ONLY be obtained in one way. They are showing off their kinky pride, and living their truth.

They are true, high-quality kinksters, and the level of authenticity rises in the world as a direct result.



What would you say is a good way to leave a lasting mark during an impact play session? I have regular sessions with my Sir, but we’re both frustrated with how quickly my ass goes from cherry red back to normal
I’d like to have some lasting welts or bruises, but not sure what the best way to get them are, aside from just wailing on my ass with something
He is using his hands, a leather crop, a padded leather baton type thing, a rubber paddle, a wooden paddle with rubber boot treads on one side, a leather belt or a thick leather strap.



You’ve both watched my video, right? That’s a good start.

For MY needs, if I want to leave some marks, then it’s time to bring out the Tommy Tomcat and the singletail whip. Here is why: The need is for harder, more-narrowly-focused strikes.

Tell your Sir that he has found a treasure of great value.

Tuesday, December 25, 2018

Toybag Tour, Thud vs. Sting: Floggers and Whips and Such

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Anonymous: What would you say is a good implement scale for impact play? Like, the farther up the scale the more intense it is.


Papa Tony:

Funny that you should ask. I periodically design toys for FlogMeBaby.com - I have NO financial connection with them. Not a single penny. I do this work because I want new Doms to build their own toy bag with solid-quality toys without having to go broke doing it.

 

I invented a two-sided scale for them that shows where a particular toy fits between STING and THUD. You can see it on the upper left, in pink.

That scale has proven to be a very practical way to make valid shopping decisions without being able to actually try out the toy first.

I admire craftspeople who hand-craft exquisite, expensive ($300-$500) floggers. I have owned a bunch over the years. However, I like to recommend toys that are high-quality, but inexpensive. It’s awkward for a newbie Flogging Top to learn proper practices by guess and by golly, with a huge, awkward flogger (or a wimpy one, shown below) sold at the local porn emporium.

That’s why I always steer folks toward my flogging instructional video, and recommend good starter toys that will last a long time, without eliminating the Grocery Fund for a month.

I can’t tell you how many new Sirs that I have met with outrageously rough, inappropriate Instruments of Torture that they thought that might be a good choice, and then no subs will let them go for more than a few strokes… The actual goal is perfect, thrilling power-flow that fluctuates smoothly as the circumstances allow.



This is my leather toy bag, which is a tiny subset of my larger toy collection. I carry the bag with me when I am attending parties. It is also what the slave brings upstairs when he arrives and sets up the scene to my specifications. This is because it contains my collection of favorite, most useful toys. Today, we are ignoring the paddles, crops and canes, and discussing the floggers and whips.



I have arranged a few of my toys to illustrate the range of sensations caused by various toys along the spectrum of “Thud” on the left, and progressively more intense with the “Sting” selection on the right.

Explaining The Tall Socks



When you have a bunch of floggers in a bag or a wheeled, carry-on piece of luggage, the skinny tails can make quite a mess of tangles. So, have the submissive clean up after the scene by pulling a tall sock over the forearm until there is a “sock puppet:”


Use the “mouth” to grab the ends of the flogger tails, and then use the other hand to pull the sock over the entire flogger. Long socks like this can be found at the Junior Miss section at your local Target or Walmart.

The Bunny: Very Thuddy



Starting at the far left of the “Thuddy” side of the scale, the Bunny is made of lengths of rope, covered in bunny fur. It’s at least three decades old. How did I keep it in such great shape? I kept it away from young dogs. They ALL want to shred it!

It’s a very exaggerated toy. I would never use it on a person with a slender frame. I wouldn’t want to break their ribs! The ideal bottom for this is somebody with a wide, well-padded back.

I throw it with a two-handed, “baseball bat” throw, from the side, striking against the UPPER back. Stay far away from the lower back. This one is for piggy bottoms who can’t stand Sting, but adore Thud… the heavier the better.

The Big, Heavy Flogger



Moving one notch away to the right. This category is VERY typical of high-end, more-expensive floggers that are everywhere on the market. The one shown in the picture above cost me $350.

My recommendation for such a toy is the Mister Thuddy. I helped design it years ago. I just checked: it costs 45 bucks. Not a good beginner flogger (I have trained many hundreds of Flogging Tops), but a very nice second flogger. This is what the result looks like, after using it.

My Favorite Flogger - Medium Weight



This is the Thumper, and it comes from FlogMeBaby. I didn’t design this one, but if I had, I would not change a single thing about it. I have raved about them, in detail. If I had ONE toy in my possession, this would be the one for me, hands down. I demonstrate many, many ways to use it, here. This photo shows a nice aftermath.

If you are going to learn how to use it, start by practicing the Loose Grip, shown in the video that I just linked to. I’ve been using it for forty years, and it is the reason why my wrist and forearm don’t hurt after a long night of playing with a dozen eager subs in a bar.

This next section is the kind of flogger that I avoid:

Wimpy, Flimsy Floggers



I snagged this image off of the Internet, because I would never own floggers like these. If I win some in a raffle basket, I donate them back. You see tons of these in the local “Lingerie and Dildo” stores.

Using a lightweight toy like this in an Impact Play scene would be like using a cardboard tube from a roll of paper towels to beat somebody. There’s no release of kinetic energy, followed by increased endorphins.

On the other hand, if your goal is to get in a fight with a toddler that leaves you both giggling, these floggers are pretty nice.

The Tommy Tomcat



Going further to the right side of the scale. I designed the Tommy Tomcat for FlogMeBaby, based upon a very expensive toy that somehow disappeared from a play-party, a few decades past. I imagine that there are many hundreds of Tomcats in the world, as a result.

Imagine that you are at a kinky play-party. There is one piggy bottom that is being flogged by every Top in the building, and is still going strong when the Doms are all worn out. That is a very strong signal that it’s time to switch over to Sting as a tactic. Every time that I have tested that theory, I have been rewarded with a VERY happy bottom.

If you follow the breaking-in instructions on my page, then you will have the most accurate toy in your entire collection. I never strike any further away than a quarter-inch or so from my desired target when I am using it. It’s amazingly precise. This photo shows the aftermath of a heavy scene.

This video always gives me a thrill. Frankly, I get turned on, watching how well I use that Tomcat. I don’t usually get to see myself from such a different angle.

The Dragon’s Tongue



My two Dragon’s Tongues were hand-made by a buddy. I would love to find a more durable replacement. I will be investigating the purple and red ones that FlogMeBaby sells for twenty bucks each. Mine have been through hell, as you might imagine. I use them a lot.

They are deceptively mild as you warm up the sub, but a sharp “flick” will raise some serious welts. Definitely not to be used on beginners.

Singletail Whip



We have now arrived at ONE of the ultimately “sting-y” toys (not counting fiber-optic floggers - Those will be featured in a future article). The one in the picture above cost me three or four hundred bucks. It’s an Axel whip. Other Tops will stop me when I walk by, and they will say “Oooh! That’s an Axel, isn’t it?” It IS exquisitely made, and it throws like a dream.

HOWEVER. Again, the average beginner can’t seriously buy something like this, and trust that it’s right for them. Singletail whips are DIFFICULT to learn by yourself, to the point where other people trust you to throw whips around without damage to yourself and others.

Luckily, I have posted a Singletail 101 instructional video, for just such a purpose. Once you know how to achieve a perfect spread of singletail strikes on a pillow, you are a good bet to able to do a really good job on a human being.

For those on a budget, I have designed am inexpensive singletail that I can happily recommend. It is called the PTSM - The Papa Tony Signature Model. I just checked. It’s eighty bucks.

Again, I get no special considerations of any kind from FlogMeBaby. I just want to see more safe, fun kinky play happening in the world. It’s the Approving, Kinky Grandpa in me.

Monday, February 12, 2018

Leaving Marks, on the Ass That Can't Get Enough of 'Em

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Papa Tony:

Paddle made from Cocobolo wood.  These are easy to find.

Click here to watch the instructional video on YouTube.

One of the men that I mentor has had the incredible good luck to find a submissive who adores heavy play on his ass.  Questions arose as a result, and the video is meant to cover those questions.

What conclusions are reached in this video?

- Cocobolo Wood is Best

- A Submissive Who Adores Heavy Play Needs A Collar And A Place Next To You Every Night In Bed.



Trophy Pictures

The following images are "Trophies" for the submissive who has brought pleasure, and earned my respect.  I talk more about this concept here.


Plain old spanking.

One good, hard smack.




Tommy Tomcat, found here.

Clearly, NOT his butt, but this shows what 
marks can result from a Tommy Tomcat.



"PTSM" Singletail Whip, found here.


Cocobolo paddle.




Dragon's Tongue, with Leg Spreader.

Dragon's Tongue, under black light.



Leather Belt.


Sunday, September 10, 2017

Review: PTSM Singletail Whip, with Instructional Video

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Papa Tony:

This is going to sound like an advertisement.  It is not.  I make ZERO money, kickbacks, spiffs, discounts or any other reimbursement from the community work that I do. 

I am reviewing the "PTSM" whip.  "PTSM" = "Papa Tony Signature Model".  I am Papa Tony.  This is a page of articles that I have posted online. I spend around twenty hours a week, mentoring Tops.  This article, and the energy that I spent bringing the PTSM into the world, is just a small part of that work. I get my payoff from reading the fan-mail that I get, on an ongoing basis.




The PTSM whip was expressly designed by me, in every detail.

I did this, because I want every sadistic Dom, Top, Sir or Madam to have a superb, high-quality whip without having to choose between FOOD for a month, or a lifetime-quality whip, which usually costs twice, to four times as much. The Recession never went away, for folks who work for a living.



I work closely with Steve Molla, who runs flogmebaby.com. I help him to design optimal, high-quality toys that cost a TINY fraction of what is found elsewhere. I strongly endorse the Tommy Tomcat and the Mister Thuddy, both of which I helped to design.
The current project is something called the "Papa Tony Signature Model" singletail whip.  It is utter perfection for playing indoors. I specified every detail, and they have absolutely nailed it. I've been playing with the prototype, and it is as fine as any whip that I've ever seen or used.

What makes it so nice?

- Lead shot in the bag in the handle. Perfect for balance, without adding thickness.
- Three-foot length (not counting the cracker).  Doesn’t hit the wall and ceiling when you are using it on a human being indoors.
- Perfect feel, heft and flexibility.  This encourages perfect aim.
- Easily-replaced crackers (I prefer Kevlar crackers, myself).

What are the drawbacks?

Just one:

- It's not as PRETTY as a super-expensive, custom-made whip.  It's also probably one-quarter of the COST, so there is that.

You can buy fancier whips, but not even slightly better for the job at hand:

My preferred pattern, after vertically singletailing a bottom.

I have owned many, MANY whips, and other toys.  Why so many?  I like to bestow them upon rising stars in the community, who have proven their worth, over and over: