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How does one take first step to being a sub - does one seek a master first or do i need to train myself first? i am young 19 trying to get into the scene.Papa Tony:
Thanks for reaching out, young brother. I assume that you live near Phoenix, Arizona, based upon your Tumblr handle. I mention this, because "Pups" and "Boys of Leather" groups can be found in major cities. I like such groups - young men like you can safely gain useful wisdom that will be of good use to you for the rest of your life:
Arizona Pups & Handlers (A-PAH) http://www.a-pah.org
Phoenix Boys of Leather http://phoenixboysofleather.com
I found both of those links instantly by using Google. I searched for Arizona leather boys and Arizona leather pups.
When I was your age, there was no such thing as "Puppy Play" and things like that. As an old man, I am the last person to be qualified to judge the Pups or Boys (never having been one), but here is my outsider observation:
Groups like these are hugely valuable for younger submissive men. If we had a larger quantity of kindly, supportive Loving Uncles in our community (like we used to, before AIDS), we would probably not have so many "Puppy Patrol" and "Boys of Leather" groups.
Why? Because there would be a lot more kindly, accepting and unconditional support, which younger men desperately need. So, in the absence of external validation from older men, younger men have turned to each other for support.
Being under 21, you can't go to events located in bars. Luckily, groups like those tend to have non-bar events as well.
You are very smart to seek more useful information. Ignorance of the culture can be fixed, by seeking out trusted resources.
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