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2017-11-06 Health, Bondage and MEAT

Table of Contents

I. Club X - XMen Academy - Men's Health
II. Fox & Friends - Swap Meat!
III. Bedroom Bondage Workshop
IV. All Clubs Weekend at The Eagle
V. Upcoming Community Events
VI. From ME to YOU

I. Club X - XMen Academy - Men's Health w/Nathan Kendrick

Thursday, November 9, 2017
7PM to 9PM
Location: Pleasures & Treasures
Cost: Free to Club X members, $5 for non-members
Description: Out health is not something we discuss nearly enough in our line of play, whether it be kink-related or fetish-oriented; however, it is something that is undeniably important for us in order to keep doing the things we love! Join us this Thursday at Pleasures & Treasures, and bring your general health questions, as Nathan will be answering whatever questions you may have regarding general Men's Health!



II. Fox & Fiends - Swap Meat!


Saturday, November 11, 2017
6PM to 8PM
Location: Urban Mo's
Cost: Support the venue, otherwise Free

"Come for the swap, stay for the MEAT."

Description: Join us this weekend at Urban Mo's in Hillcrest for Fox & Fiends leather swap meat! This is a great place to bring your old, used or outgrown leathers, toys and gear in order to pass them on to another of our brothers or sisters. With the holidays just around the corner, this is also ample opportunity to pick-up gifts for yourself and others!

Selling of gear is welcomed, and Urban Mo's will be providing tables for vendors to set up during the event! Demoing is also welcomed and encouraged, please respect the venue and the belongings of each individual vendor. Contact the hosts by following the information line in the flier above!

III. FMSD Workshop - Bedroom Bondage

Sunday, November 12, 2017
3PM to 6PM
Location: Hillcrest workshop, email DoriamFMSD@GMail.com
Cost: $5 Requested donation on-site or via PayPal.com/FMSanDiego

Howdy Gents! It's my turn to teach a workshop from the ground up, and this time I will be teaching a skill near and dear to my heart: Bondage! This workshop will cover several types of bondage, including what I've become known for (Shibari/Rope) and some forms of bondage I don't get to show nearly as much to the general public! Before the class, please familiarize yourself with the knot demonstrated in this video, HERE as it will be the primary knot we will be using during the rope bondage section of this class.

"Wait. Did you say SECTION?" -- Why yes, floating head! I did!

This workshop will be divided into parts, including quick and effective rope bondage used to, well, tie your partner down! In addition to the rope section, I will be covering introducing you on how to use less formal objects to bind your partner down in a bedroom or at-home setting for "extra-curricular activities."

You do not NEED to come partnered to this workshopIf you have someone you'd like to play with at this workshop, please invite them, otherwise we will do our best to get hands-on time for everyone!

From Doriam:
I will need 3 Demo Bottoms for this workshop. All demo bottoms will be asked to arrive by 2pm or meet with me prior to the workshop to practice/prepare/plan for the workshop. Email DoriamFMSD@GMail.com for details.

All Attendees: You are welcome to bring any toys (dildos, butt plugs, gags, cuffs, etc) you'd like to see used. If you have rope, please bring it. If you have folding chairs, please contact Doriam.

Bondage (Givers): Please bring a tie (like you'd wear with a collared shirt), a belt, and a pillow case with you. Please bring one mundane object you'd like to see used for bondage purposes.

Bondage (Receiver): Please bring condoms and lube. You may decide you'd like to try using one of the toys present for the workshop, and to mitigate risk we ask that bottoms provide their own condoms/lube.

IV. San Diego Eagle's 15th Anniversary!


All Clubs Weekend at The Eagle
Friday, November 17 to Sunday, November 19th
Location: San Diego Eagle
Cost: Support the venue, otherwise Free

Description: Join us starting on Friday, November 17 at 9:00pm at our cities' last remaining Leather Bar -- The Eagle. Fifteen years since The Eagle opened its doors, and we are now coming together to celebrate our community as a whole! Join our brothers and sisters in leather and kink for a weekend full of demos, fetish wear and community.

Friday evening, many of our instructors and members of our leadership team will be available and demonstrating their favorite kink-based skills! At 10PM that night, there will be a featured performance by the Bad Boyz of Porn!

Saturday, some of us will be at the Eagle again with more demos, but at 10:00pm we will stop and stand in unity with the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence for their blessing to our community; if you are seeking tribal energy, seeking unity and connection - you don't want to miss this.

Lastly, on Sunday, join us for the Eagle Bus Trip to Palm Springs! This is a great day-long adventure with our brothers. Purchase your ticket at the Eagle during or before All Clubs Weekend!


V. Upcoming Community Events

San Diego Eagle 15th Birthday - All Clubs Weekend
Friday, November 17 - Sunday, November 19, 2017
Location: San Diego Eagle
Cost: Support the venue, otherwise Free
Description: The Eagle is celebrating 15 years of life on Friday, November 17th and is sharing it with you! Friday Night, starting at 9PM, FMSD will be showing en masse to the San Diego Eagle to demo several forms of play, including, but not limited to, rope bondage, spanking, flogging, booting/trampling, and others! At 10PM that night, there will be a featured performance by the Bad Boyz of Porn! Saturday Night, join us for drink specials all night, and a blessing by the Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, with further demos from our local San Diego Kink, Leather, Fetish, and BDSM Clubs!

Club X - Open Party - Treasure Island!
Saturday, November 18
6PM to Midnight
Location: North Park
Cost: $30 for Club X Members, $50 for non-members. Purchase your ticket Here
Description: Treasure Island will be a night of seafaring, booty pillaging, plank walking, treasure hunting excitement, all with a pirate theme! Purchase your tickets ahead of time by following the link above, and if you like what you see, roll the $20 surcharge into your Club X Membership for the next 12 months!



Eagle Bus Trip - Palm Springs HERE WE COME!
Sunday, November 19, 2017
Noon to Midnight
Location: San Diego Eagle to Palm Springs
Cost: $50/Attendee
Description: The Eagle Bus Trip is back! This time, we're heading to Palm Springs and will be visiting several of our favorite cruizing spots along the way! Reserve your seat by purchasing a ticket from the bartenders at the San Diego Eagle!


FMSD Demo Night - Human Pet Night
Friday, December 1, 2017
9PM to Midnight
Location: San Diego Eagle
Cost: Support the venue, otherwise Free
Description: You know them, you love them, and you, more than likely, know quite a few of them! Human Pet Play is a quickly growing type of Role Play, beyond just the Pups in our lives, come out and play with your local kittens, foxes, and other pets at this Role Play Demo at our local Leather Bar!

GMAG December - FMSD: Leather, Gear, and Kink Modeling
Monday, December 4, 2017
6PM to 9PM
Location: Twiggs in University Heights
Cost: Free to Models, $10 for Photographers and Artists, Cash Only. Please support the venue!
Description: Have you thought posing for artists in, and out of, your gear? Or perhaps refining your sketching, drawing, painting or photographic artistic skills of the male form? The Gay Men's Art Group of San Diego (GMAG) has invited FMSD to participate in their monthly art night on December 4. The theme is Leather, Gear, and Kink. Nudity is very welcome although not required! Photography is restricted to the photographer and model and the private Facebook group if the model consents to that. If you are interested, please contact Scott at FetishMenSanDiego@GMail.com


VI. From ME to YOU

With the holidays around the corner, it is a time for us to reflect on the things that make us all thankful and grateful! I look forward to seeing many of you over the next few weeks for several of the events we have coming up, we are hoping to put something together during the Thanksgiving Weekend if we can manage it, so keep tuned!

I do want to share one thing that I personally am thankful for, and it's the continued love and support I get from you all. I could and would not be running FMSD if it wasn't for all of you. It is your dedication to our continued growth that keeps me motivated and wanting to provide more and more. My first FMSD meeting was November 16, 2016 and the first meeting I led was the following month on December 20th! It feels like no time has passed between now and then, but coming up on my one year of leadership has made me reflect on what WE have achieved together; and I value each of you for what you have done to help get us here.

If you haven't already, take a moment and look at our Volunteer Program. Our leadership team is still hoping to bring at least a few of you with us next year to Up Your Alley; but we can't do it without volunteers! Here is a link for your convenience: Volunteer Program

Until next week, gents!

In Service,
Doriam C