IF YOU ARE NEW TO THE FETISH MEN SAN DIEGO GROUP:
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We want to help you to fit in. FMSD is a HUGE, swarming and somewhat intimidating group, but we aren't a clique. We WANT new members and welcome them at every opportunity. Each one of us started out as shy, unsure and wondering if we would find people of like-mind. We have all fit in just dandy, and so will you.
There will be friendly folks who will greet you (but you have to walk up to them and say howdy).
They will invite you to help set up chairs for the Men's Discussion, starting at 7PM. You can quietly observe during the discussion, or you can jump right in - we won't pressure you either way. Just be aware that your shyness will pass very quickly. We are friendly, warm and nice guys. You'll see.
The Men's Discussions were created as a safe, quiet, non-bar-oriented way for folks to actually TALK about things that really matter, and build real friendships in a highly scattered Internet age. There will be optimal social opportunities during the break, and after the meeting is done.
Our other social events can be wonderful as well, but can be a bit LARGE and may be intimidating for shy newbies. Don't fret - Just come up to the folks who seem to be running things. They are gracious hosts, and can get you connected.
Work with us, so that we can enjoy your friendship for years to come! We are NOT what you are expecting!
What We Do
Here are some typical representative events that we either host, or like to attend together as loving brothers, so that you can see us in action. This is a TINY sample of what we have to offer in our local Tribe, and the reviews that are linked beneath each photo will help you to understand our ways:
