Wear your hottest, sexiest gear - Leather, uniform, rubber, fetishwear. You know - the stuff that you can never find a good reason to wear in public, so that it normally gathers dust in your closet. It's time to shake the dust off! If it makes your dick hard when you wear it, we want to see it.
Or, if you don't have any of that stuff, we want to see you with your shirt off.
At this point, when I'm greeting a new guy at an event, and I tell him that, he gets all hung-up, worried that his body isn't "perfect enough". SCREW that. We're ALL worried about not being able to match up to the heavily-photoshopped porn that we see every day.
Here's the good news - At FMSD events, you can be yourself... relaxed, happy and secure. We want every age, every color, every body-syle, every experience-level. There's no "A-List" here. We are all on the same level, and we are all dying to relax and leave the concerns outside. We're gay men in the modern internet age, and we all know what a dick looks like, so the sex part is handled already.
Now, it's time to add in even more brotherhood.
At our events, everybody clusters together within about a foot of each other, leaving the rest of the bar empty. It is so very Tribal. New, shy guys forget to be shy, and just dive right in.
If it's brotherhood you've been wanting, then get your ass away from the computer - The Real Thing is here. We want you to be with us. Just be a nice man, be proud of who you are, and you're in.
